Most of us use a surname. Well, unless you are world famous, like Cher or Madonna! That doesn’t mean we will have the same surname throughout our life. After the wedding, should one spouse take the other’s name? Or should it be double-barrelled? Perhaps you want to change your surname due to family changes or simply preference.
Here, we look at those choices and what a surname represents.
Traditions Are Not For Everyone
Did you know that a lady received her husband’s first and surname in the Victorian era? She adopted the moniker of “Mrs. James McBride” and made her public debut. Fortunately, things have drastically changed. The degree to which women can decide whether to adopt their husband’s name or retain their maiden name after marriage is more important than the extent to which men routinely take their wives’ second names (though this happens occasionally). Some spouses join their second names with a hyphen. In recent years, there has also been a trend to combine surnames; for instance, Jones-Brown could become Brones by merging elements of both surnames.
Family Matters
Aside from marriage and divorce, family changes could prompt you to want to change your surname. For example, taking the surname of a step-parent who has brought you up is a lovely way of honouring them. Family estrangements may also lead to you wanting a different surname. If a parent of a sibling has done something wrong and you no longer wish to be associated with them, then changing your name could be an appealing option.
Other Reasons For Changing Your Name
While you do not have to offer a ‘valid’ reason when changing your name via deed poll, it is good to acknowledge there are more reasons than simply marriage, divorce and family dynamics for wanting to change your name.
Gender representation is an increasingly common reason, with many people wanting to feel their name matches their gender identity. Everyone has the right to feel comfortable with their identity. Another reason could be because your name is associated with something negative or attracts negative attention, or it may even be time for a fresh start after a rough period.
For help changing your name via Deed Poll, contact DeedPoll.com on 020 8017 2216.
